Friday, March 09, 2007

People need people

I'm not sure what to write about, that's why I havne't thought of an appropriate title just as yet. Well for starter's there are quite a few things that really annoy me and get me worked up. The fact that there are people who are so dependant on others. Not for materialistic things but they just can't be alone. Every minute. I'm not being judgemental but this is probably the beginning of alot of issues for them. They look at spending time by themselves as a bad thing. As though it's a sin of some sort. I think they need to understand that when they're feeling blue maybe a little introspect is better. Other people can't be available for them all the time. It's just an observation. I can't do anythin about it.
So just some random thoughts actually. People tell you things and don't mean it at all. Well that happens all the time also. Nothing is what it seems. Somehow in a crowded room so full of people, everyone is just a stranger to each other. Hoe well do we really know anyone around anyway? How well do we really know ourselves for that matter?
People who are afraid to move on and rather still dwell and seek revenge cannot move forward because they think that they are lost without their bitterness. They are pretty comfortable with it that it has become a part of who they are. Instead of focussing on themselves, they're feeling antsy because somehow the scores haven't been settled. No wonder they're miserable.
But it's true, people need people. We just do. I'm no Psychologist but we need them to share our feelings with, to share our experiences with them and so that they become a part of the kodak moments that we want to take with us for the rest of our lives.